@Hadders What was the solution to this? I have close to 20 Tapo cameras , and had to turn off notifications (truly sad), because I get 3-4 notifications every time. Even from the door bell camera....

This is absolutely absurd. Like original poster said, you don't mind sharing the camera, but there NEEDS to be a master control over what to share. I had shared a couple of my cams with a neighbor....